Myself. No one is looking out for me.
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I think France has won more wars than any other nation in history.
It’s somehow even worse if you’re trans and American. Honestly I almost wish blatant oppression would begin so I could seek asylum somewhere.
I’d like to leave the United States first. Someplace diverse where I can walk or use public transit, and that has clean water and air. If there’s wilderness, hiking trails, or any other kind of nature relatively close that would be pretty swell.
mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What do you do when people don't care?22·4 months agoI’m not being dismissive of their view, I understand the need for self-preservation. I think the crux of it is how do I get folks who agree things are going wrong to move from that space into one of more action? Almost everyone I’m talking to at work agrees with me, but no one is interested in organizing or preparing, and that’s what baffles me most.
I don’t know myself - I don’t have some grand plan or idea. Im a regular person (albeit one with a better historical understanding of history due to education). I’m just scared about what’s coming next, and I’m completely isolated at the end of the day. Rather than buy a bunch of guns and ammo, I would prefer to connect with folks to build mutual support, or to prepare to strike/protest/boycott (or whatever seems most effective at the time).
Thank you.
mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What do you do when people don't care?51·4 months agoI’m not lecturing, I’m asking for help on how to approach this. This is closer to frustrated bitching than lecturing.
mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What do you do when people don't care?62·4 months agoMost of the folks I talk to hear agree with me that things are going wrong, or that x,y, or z is a problem, but not enough to do anything about it. I have heard a few times that, " I want to do something, but I have to protect myself."
mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What do you do when people don't care?298·4 months agoI used that term to show that they are privileged folks who likely won’t be directly targeted by the administration, at least at first.
One of her symbols is an 8-pointed star. I like to wear one as a necklace as a low key way to display my pride and still be safe.
Better yet, Luthor has Batson in his entourage, so everyone thinks Captain Marvel is rolling at his side all the time. Until Batman realizes it’s just… Billy Batson.
mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Where are the good political songs?2·1 year agoLol me neither
mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Where are the good political songs?8·1 year agoIt’s not as punk, but the last three albums by Metric are brilliant in how they discuss the current state of the world.
mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•former smokers, do you ever have random moments months or years later where you just get textbook "cravings" symptoms?3·1 year agoI do, the longer it’s been the shorter they are (almost 10 years now). My trigger is seeing someone, usually in a TV or movie, take that long, exaggerated drag.
As a trans girl, I get a lot of interest from other trans girls, so it checks out for me.
Just want to comment on the “trap is ok/not ok debate.”
It’s totally cool if you or your partner(s) identity as a trap. As an older trans girl, being a trap was a badge of honor. It meant not only do you pass, but you’re fucking hot. Almost like a trap/not trap distinction of attractiveness (which is also horribly misogynistic and demeaning), but it was a qualifier.
So I get it, part of me likes the idea of being called that - in a private, contextual sense. But the problem is the word and the connotation it has in the general zeitgeist, which implies that a trans person (typically a trans woman) “tricks” a man into having sex with her, and then deserves whatever happens to her, regardless of how dehumanizing it may be.
It is the horrible, completely unjustifiable rationale behind the Panic Defense, and that’s why it is a term that needs to be buried. Continued use of it is an unconscious signal that trans women are perpetrating some kind of deception just by existing in a man’s field of vision (if, of course, she comes close enough to cis white heteronormtive standards of beauty).
Be woke. Don’t say trap (except in the bedroom. And then smack my ass a little 😋).
Does it classify overtime as “more than 160 hours worked in a 4 week period”, because that’s the original language I saw. Can still work you to death and not pay extra.