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vestmoria@linux.communityOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How do I stop having expectations at the workplace?English0·1 month agoand yet you fail to name any of the faults you claim I have. I commend you for your insightful, based post. Keep it up.
I’m not a licensed therapist
no shit on that one.
vestmoria@linux.communityOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How do I stop having expectations at the workplace?English0·1 month agoand which one are those?
vestmoria@linux.communityOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•work related: is this something only an autistic would ask?English3·3 months agoSince you just said “ok” without explanation or complaint, and then hung up, thats very matter of fact, straight to the point, and lacks the more emotional response most neurotypical people would have.
because I don’t want drama and when I work I get, as you put it, straight to the point. Why wasting words and time? What do I achieve if I yell and insult back? I become a moron yelling to another moron.
vestmoria@linux.communityOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•work related: is this something only an autistic would ask?English3·3 months agoI’ve seen people walked out for less andI work in a factory.
now I’m curious. Would you tell us about it?
vestmoria@linux.communityOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•work related: is this something only an autistic would ask?English7·3 months agoThe way you responded was more indicative of being autistic to an extent.
would you please elaborate? What gives me away?
vestmoria@linux.communityOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•work related: is this something only an autistic would ask?English71·3 months agome: Hi, I’m A and tomorrow I’ll be working with you. Can you tell me how many patients do you have today at the unit?
her: what for? (she sounded exasperated).
me: I want to know how much I have to work.
her: are you stupid? (aggressively)
me: I beg your pardon?
her: are you stupid? [insert rant here she started I didn’t listen to because when people yell at me I disconnect and if she already made up her mind not to answer me, why bother? Plus, how many of you can have a conversation with somebody yelling at you?]
me: fine [I hung up]
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vestmoria@linux.communityOPto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•In your career, have you found a drama free workplace?English1·11 months agodo you have any advice for me, now that I’m applying and might work elsewhere? Is there anything I could ask during interviewing to indicate I loathe drama, people full of themselves talking politics or conspiracies or openly discussing how vaginas look like?
vestmoria@linux.communityOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•if you like doing your job and going home, how do you bear with coworkers who are lazier but more popular than you and get away with doing less?English22·11 months agoyes, a very beautiful post.
Lost_My_Mind: how do you do it? Because apparently I’m very thin skinned and overly political statements my coworkers blurt out trigger me or their boring marriage troubles bore me and I find myself trying to control me not to yell ‘I don’t give a f*ck about you, leave me alone’, which of course earns me an invitation with management…
vestmoria@linux.communityOPto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•what's your experience washing sneakers in the washing machine?English5·11 months agoI assume that’s an old pillowcase?
vestmoria@linux.communityOPto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•to those of you who get bored at work if there's lots of downtime, why?English1·1 year agoI’ve worked in jobs with plenty of downtime, but have never worked in one where I could just wander off to exercise or read a book openly. I was expected to be finding things to do or to at least appear busy and engaged.
good point, this changes the calculus
vestmoria@linux.communityOPto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•to those of you who get bored at work if there's lots of downtime, why?English32·1 year agoThe only thing that maintains sanity is having something to do to distract yourself
I don’t see why reading or writing poetry don’t accomplish that
vestmoria@linux.communityOPto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•to those of you who get bored at work if there's lots of downtime, why?English52·1 year agoI don’t know if you’re complaining but if you are, I don’t understand you. I want to be you.
earning money doing almost nothing is meaningless? You earn money for doing nothing! and you cannot be fired, so…
vestmoria@linux.communityOPto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•to those of you who get bored at work if there's lots of downtime, why?English4·1 year agodo these jobs you got later pay you better?
vestmoria@linux.communityOPto Linux@lemmy.ml•is there any drawback to having too many partitions?English2·1 year agothank you for your detailed post and the off topic bits, helpful as well
vestmoria@linux.communityOPto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•where can I ask for OCLP (open core legacy patcher) and macOS support?English1·1 year agoright, 2014 mbp, 11.1, 8 GB RAM
thank you very much for your helpful post
vestmoria@linux.communityOPto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•to those of you who use apple products, what do you use and why?English524·1 year agocalm down
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just pointing out how you post to rant pal.